Wednesday, October 20, 2010

10/20/2010 Vincent

summary,lesson,experience


summary

Jialin punched on Jeffery’s face last month because Jeffery turned the music very loud when Jialin was fallen a sleep. Then, they fight together severely. Jialin realized that he may be too serious and false, he said sorry to Jeffery and try to fix their relationship.


Lesson

From this story I realized two important things. It teaches me two lessons.


1) no matter what happen between you and your friends, I do not think that Fighting is a wise move and solution. Because it will not only hurt yourself physically, but also damage your friends relationship. It can cause negative influence.


2) Once you really fight with your friends, you are supposed to reflect yourself whether you are right or not. If you do so, please go back a step and try to admit your false. And then you will increase the possibility of recovering friendship. It is not worth to fight with your friends. As a saying goes, “you are not going to make more enemies, but more friends.” Human beings are social creatures, we all need friendship in our whole life.


experience


I have had this kind of experience before, 2 years ago I fought with a friend in my sport school because of a small thing. He is my good friend, but once he played a joke o me in front of my classmates, and they all laughed at me. I was incredibly angry and argued with him. Moreover, we nearly fought with each other. Sometimes later, I realized that I should have not be so serious and try to fix the relationship. We became good friends again very soon. I know the importance of friendship and I will treasure it.



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